Little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was little bit scared and so he asked her daughter, sweet heart please hold my hand so that you don’t fall. The girl answered No Dad, you hold my hand. The father was puzzled and asked what is the big difference?
The little girl gave her sweet reply, if I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand Go.
In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond.
So hold the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold.