How to escape Sorrow

If you are born in this world, you need to cry!!

I developed a statement or I wrote a dialogue,
“I need to cry, I need to shed tears and I want to fail in Life”

The above statement may seem to be mad, but the truth is it can turn out to be the best statement for the person who follows it.

For Instance, If you are in tough times in your life, you would see it as an experience and try to move on with your life instead of asking the really mad Questions such as, ” Why is that it all happens to me?”.

Another Instance, If we laugh one day with full of happiness, people would say, “Don’t laugh too much you would cry then”.

The Clarity is Happiness and Sadness are cycles of Life and it’s not true that if we laugh we may have to cry!!

The sorrow for anyone would be a loss of a loved one or a broke up.

This can be imagined even as ” A Child crying when her teady bear is lost”

Our Crying is almost similar to that of the Child whether we believe it or not, its the truth!!

Some of the statements to cry include, “My Life has no meaning without my love” or “My Life is incomplete without my Love”

Consider the scenario:

When a camera which was bought with severe desire is lost, we cry
But, When we our-self can give the camera to a friend who wants it, it takes a great heart to do that and we would feel a satisfaction even though we are losing it!!

Crying for oneself means Selfish!! You may need the camera since you extracted happiness out of it.

Crying for someone means spreading misery. If we know that we cannot do anything to the person who has a sorrow. We may just need to pray and move on. If we cry and turn our-self by being sad all the time, we are spreading misery.

A person in sorrow may need to find a way to recover themselves, worrying for that person is of no use and its like stopping them to do their actions with our consolations!

I am deeply in sorrow and How to escape sorrow?

The Simple way to forget sorrow is to keep oneself busy!! But in reality, we tend to do the opposite by simply sitting and thinking the same event which had happened.

For Instance, When a person has lost love, they slowly becomes separated from their friends and the rest of the world.

Instead, it would be happy if they can spread happiness in the world by talking with other people and by keeping themselves busy by doing things which they like the most!!

Astrology is Perception

I am not a believer of astrology. But, Astrology has played a fatal role in my life and had brought sorrows to me.

It all started when I found some astrology books in my grandfather’s house. It was very fun for me to ask for other people’s date of birth and to check their character and yes most people agreed with some points what I said. The important aspect I do is I will read their characters personally and if I found a match in the book, I will tell only those points and not other points which I don’t understand.

So, by this I checked the traits of my close friends and used to tell them and they would throw me surprises and tell me how you are telling me exactly. But, I never knew it could create so much sorrow in my life.

I checked for one of my friend and said about the traits and yes there was surprise and agreed to be true. But the future part written on the person was not good in my perception of them. I firmly believed that a disaster is going to happen and I was going mad such that I should anyhow save from disaster. I had taken that as a motto of my life.

I was not a believer of god but I was going into external locus of control and some events occurred which was out of my control and thought that some external power is there. However, I never prayed for me but I was praying for that person and was crying day and night that I need to somehow stop the disaster. This was also because of the factor that the person said only god can save me and some events were occurring which gave me signals that a disaster is going to happen.

I started thinking day and night about the person and I failed to mind my own business. I did not show interest in anything and I was always found to be dull. I stopped enjoying and I thought I should not enjoy.

The disaster did not happen and my perception was wrong. I also believe that in some way, I was helpful in stopping the disaster again which I don’t know if it right or wrong. This is again my perception and I know that I somehow need to avoid it.

 

 

Tense becomes Tension

Why Tense becomes Tension?

What we have which is common for anybody?

Time – 24 Hours a Day. However, we have differentiated Time as Past,Present and Future. We call it as

Past Tense

Present Tense

Future Tense

Now, Consider a Child is born.

The Child lives the present. The Child doesnt know about the past or dont worry about the Future. The Survival of the baby is taken care by the parents.

The Child slowly understands mother,father,relations and others. As the baby grows these nearby such as family becomes its past.

It enters a new world- School. This is the Time it starts to worry about Future.

All Children cry to go to School. The Mother cautions the child saying, “If You do not eat the food, teacher is coming to beat you.”

In the evening, the child is asked to prepare for the Next Day(Future) by giving tasks such as Home work or to study for the test.

A scenerio:

A child asks for a chocolate, the (past) parents tell the child that,”Only if you get First Rank(Future) I will buy and give you”

We worry about the Future!

We feel sad for the Past!

We never live the Present!

Now read the First Line for this Post!

The Courage

Courage and perseverance have a magical talisman, before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish into air.

– John Quincy Adams

The Inner Cry

When a Child is born, a mother’s happiness has no bounds and a father would have a feeling of success and cant control the feelings to share to everyone.

The  common Question asked is How does the child look! Is He looking like  father?

When the child is grown up, They ask a Question what do you want to become when you grow up?

Some of the answers of the child would be a Pilot, Police,Hero or Doctor.

When the child is taken outside, the child would cry to buy something.

The Father would buy them all to satisfy the child. The Child face would be full of happiness!!

Its Time for the Child Education – The School life begins and the college life ends.

The Investment of the Father has come to an End!

Now its Time for the Child to repay the Father’s Debt.

When the child thinks it time to fulfill his dreams and when it is time for desires to blossom.There comes a checkmate from the family to take over the responsibility. A responsibility to take care of the family and to repay the debts spent for child growth such as buying when the child cried and for the educational investments.

A child with huge responsibility is sandwiched between responsibility and dreams and there is an inner cry which cannot be heard.

Child Labor is not yet eradicated, it has turned into an investment model by the Poor father without the knowledge of the child.

When a Child is born, a mother’s happiness has no bounds and a father would have a feeling of success and cant control the feelings to share to everyone.

 

Give-Receive-TakeOver

A True Friend never get in your way unless you happen to be going Down!

The Preception is that someone who has helped you during your Down Times are often considered as True Friends.

The Idea is that You have received some emotion such as motivational energy or affection or love.

Once you are back in action, the mentality is developed to still need the person to give you the emotion to continue the journey.

And if you dont receive it, then you would be prone to go back to the Down State.

The Worst case is you might try to take over from them even they dont intent to give and results in break up.

 

Give-Receive-TakeOver

As long as Give and Receive are in Harmony there is no Take Over

Purpose of Life

What is the Purpose of Life?

The Ultimate Purpose of Life is not to have any Purpose.

 

There are 3 Motives which we Live:

1. We Live for the Body

2. We Live for the Mind

3. We Live for the Soul

 

In Olden Days, most of the People used only the body. They used to break stones, pull richsaws.

In Short both men and women they did manual work.

The Use of Mind and Soul were denied or were used less.

 

Now in Today, most of the people use the Mind such as logic for computer programming,designing a drug or thinking how to manage other people. The Problem of Health is more  even though the medical facilities are high.

The Body and the Soul were denied or were used less.

 

There are so called saints who had gone away from family or to some mountains to live for the Soul.

Some of them are claimed to be gods and some claim themselves to be gods or say they have superior power.

They have denied the Body and the Mind.

 

The One who is trying to seek a purpose would deny the other.

 

 

 

Love Senses

Woman Fall in Love by What they Hear!

Men Fall in Love by What they See!

 

That’s Why

 

Most of the Woman tend to Look Beautiful

Most of the Man tend to lie

Scar in Life

The Facial Scar was disturbing a lot. It was a feeling that the confidence was lost and what to do in Life. A thought raised such that Only if the scar fades away, I could live a Life and the confidence would come back.

I went to the Doctor and his words further disturbed me, He said,” You cannot attend any interviews”. When I went out to my Home I was disturbed the most when anyone passing in the road came and asked me,”what is that in your face and How it happened”. In my college, my class mates felt sorry for me and it created a deep sadness within me.

Every Night I had tears in my eyes and every morning I was terrified to look myself in the mirror. I dont want to look myself sad all the time. I knew my face was looking ugly and the Outside scar had created me a deep scar within my Life.

I started to cover my face with a piece of scarf to cover the scar. I started to notice other people and found that they were not noticing me. I walked straight to my seat in college and removed the scarf slowly in the class so that nobody noticed me.

As days passed by I started a relationship with a girl and found that my confidence level had started to increase in exponential manner. Whenever I talked with her I was not wearing the scarf and I always thought she would ask me about the scar in the face. Sometimes I thought why such a beautiful girl is talking to me who is so ugly.

It was the time I started not to wear the scarf anymore and I walked all the way with confidence. My class members were stunned to see the girl talking to me. They asked me, “You are not looking good now and How is that she is talking to me?”  I really doesn’t know the answer to their question but I found that my answers to confidence came from her.

 

Warning-Dont read this

A Computer worker was smoking.

A girl said, “Can’t you see the warning- Smoking is injurious to health”.

He replies, “We worry about errors… Not Warnings…”.

Indian Humanic Railway System

Indian Railway System is not Robotic; it’s Humanic!!

Local Trains which are supposed to arrive at 10:40AM may arrive any time between 10:30AM to 10:50AM.
It motivates the people to be in time before 10mins and everyone is happy when the train arrives at 10:40AM time.

Track Crossing to reach the opposite platform is mostly preferred by people since its easy and also quick.
The Train driver usually have a watch when nearing station and blew the horn to alert the crossing people.

People also take their cycles alone with them in train. For Instance, people from Avadi take their cycle in Train Luggage Compartment and reach Perambur to drive their cycle to their work place. People who bought new Bike from Chennai also use Luggage Compartment to take home.

Cycle and Bike Stands are near to Railway and Bus stations and help people to park their vehicles. People leave their Vehicles during the morning and take Home evening after their working shift gets over. People also have their Monthly pass issued from the Cycle Stand Owners.

There are different class of travel which includes Air Conditioned Sleeper, Air Conditioned Setter, Second Class and Unreserved.The Unreserved Class usually have Full Utilization of Space. There is a long queue awaiting at 9:00PM for the 10:00PM Train.

The Train is bought slowly backwards to the platform from station shed around 9:30PM.
Its always thrill to get into the slowing moving train and to catch the seat. There are fights, quarrels and shouting when the whole mass enters into the Unreserved Compartment. Slowly the scene gets calm as the train leaves the station around 10:00PM. People sleep under the seat, above the luggage shelf and anywhere if a space is available.
It is so enjoyable to travel with thrill and excitement.

Train Track

Train Track

Broken Train

Broken Train

Railway Platform

Railway Platform

Train Reaching Station

Train Reaching Station

Express Train

Express Train

Houses View -From Station

Houses View -From Station

Avadi Station

Avadi Station

People in Tracks

People in Tracks

Passengers Waiting

Passengers Waiting

Train @ Station

Train @ Station

Station Stand

Station Stand

City View from Train

City View from Train

Chennai Central

Chennai Central

Southern Railway

Southern Railway

Calm Station

Calm Station

Auto Service

Auto Service

Train the Hero

Train the Hero

Train @ Tracks

Train @ Tracks

Car Park

Car Park

Road near Station

Road near Station

Park Town Station

Park Town Station

Auto Bay Chennai

Auto Bay Chennai

Road View- Station

Road View- Station

Trusts and Explanations

The Weakest Part of the Relationship comes when one of the person has to give Explanation to Prove the Trust!

Dream became Dream

I had a Target!! I had an Aim . But I could not achieve it and I know I can never Achieve It. My Dream became my Dream!! Life is taking me in its way and now I am just observing it. One Day I am sure I will beat it.

Life has more Power but Observation is Powerful and not merely just seeing without acting.

Now the Time is 2:11 AM sharp and I just had this thought thinking about a failure I had in my Life which makes me sleepless.

Life with Hand

The Way you interact when you have Nothing in your Hand.

and

The Way you Manage when you have Everything in your Hand.

Life is all about Handling!!

Lie Targets

A man was sleeping in his House. Suddenly YamaRaj, the Kill God appeared before him and said , “Go Out and Enjoy your Life and Nothing will happen to you. Why are you sleeping and wasting your time”.

Feeling Happy he ran over with excitement and met with an accident. [Interval]

In Heaven:

He shouted, Why the Hell you Lied to me and See now I met with accident and I am here.

Yama coolly replied, “Sorry Yar. Month End Pressure and I have to achieve my Target”.

[In Business, If there is Target,there definitely got be a Lie]

Friend Examining

Two friends just finished their last exam and went to refresh themselves with a cool drink.

1st- Dude which paper was it?

2nd- May be Maths

[1st got heated up hearing the words and cool drink turned Hot]

1st- So you have written the paper well?

2nd- No yar! The girl next to me was using a Calculator.

Boy’s Unknown Girl

He has some friends and the list contains a few girls too. He makes them feel good and happy and He would never help any Unknown Girl.

Suppose if he meets a new girl who in turn is also beautiful and he would like to ask her if she needs any help. He cares so much that he never any girl as Unknown.

Love workouts

He thinks about her. He still thinks about her. He always thinks about her.

She just thinks about him. She just start to think about him. She thinks whether its correct since she thinks about him.

When they both think of each other. The Love starts to Workout!!

It also implies that they both have no other Work to Do!!

[Scenerio-Usually workouts in College. If it happens at Work Place,then the Company Owner should “Think “about it!]

Death Love

He loved her so much. It was like every moment he thought about her. Unfortunately she died, he could not control his tears.

He kept on crying day and night. His friends consoled him but he was not able to hear anyone and he could only think about her and it filled his eyes with tears. Day and Night he was thinking about her and one night, he had a dream and he could not differentiate whether its dream or real.

He saw her with so many girls and they all had candle in their hands. The visual gave him some happiness but soon he became unhappy when he noticed everyone was bright and their candle was lightened. He saw her so sad and her candle was never lightened.

He felt like he was asking her, why your candle is not lightened and that why are you looking so sad?

She said whenever I enlighten my candle your tears fall on it. So Please stop crying and I wanted you to be happy.

A Guy’s Unluck

She Had called him to the Street Corner to have their last meet and to breakup.

He was so sad and tried his best to explain her. She never accepted and finally he had to go for the breakup meet.

His eyes had some few tears trying not to peep out. She had bought him a chocolate as a token of relationship they had. He felt happy for her and was about to take the chocolate and to sign off.

The Climax-

He was not so Lucky. The Girls father saw him getting a chocolate from her and he was caught red handed and now they both are married.